Asrai Devin

Kiss me, and you will see how important I am.” ― Sylvia Plath

December 17, 2012
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Enough, I am enough, you are enough. We can stop.

I’ve gotten myself into this frenzy of saving people from “wrong” choices. It started with Yahoo Answers and it escalated to several Facebook groups. People post something like “My 18 month old is biting. Spanking and time outs aren’t working.” … Continue reading

November 19, 2012
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All the what ifs in the world

My WIP is a big What If … book. I have a thing for “soul mates” who have been separated by time and their own misconceptions (see: Second Chance Romance) who get back together later. And then I was surfing Facebook and … Continue reading

November 12, 2012
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Blogging …

I know blogging about blogging how boring. I was just thinking about my process. It’s probably not the best. And if I did better I might get more views. I often write these things up late at night. I’ll be … Continue reading

August 30, 2012
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Social media is not for marketing

We see this all over the media and on blogs. Social Media does not help you sell things. And I’m kinda like DUH! Social media is for interacting. For making friends, having conversations, getting feedback, responding to feedback, CONNECTING. It … Continue reading

August 10, 2012
by asrai
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Help me out: sharing with family

  When I got my cover for Second Chance Romance I was so freaking excited that I shared it on my personal non-author Facebook profile. Everyone was excited about it. When I saw my aunts this summer they questioned me … Continue reading

July 9, 2012
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Judging is easy

I wanted to write a series of posts about parenting and my views. I’m a pro-attachment parent or maybe better to say responsive parent, we don’t do cry it out and we co-sleep (still) and breastfeed and my baby was … Continue reading

July 2, 2012
by asrai
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Simplify: Email

My first step of my simplifying and stretching my brain was to deal with my email. I had 77 unread emails in my personal account, 15 in a public account and 300+ in my Facebook/author/other public account. Part of the … Continue reading

June 19, 2012
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Fifty Shades of Gray is an old school romance!

Okay, so I wrote about Jennifer Armintrout’s HILARIOUS (well formerly hilarious, as she keeps finding the parallels between Christian Gray and general abusive, controlling men the book makes me sadder) blog recaps of Fifty Shades of Grey. And the book … Continue reading

June 18, 2012
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Relationship tips from stories

I was writing the post on “Who’s your hero?” and it occurred to me there some tips to learned from a good romance character. 1. Stop trying to fix who they are. We picked our partners because we loved who they were, … Continue reading

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