Asrai Devin

Kiss me, and you will see how important I am.” ― Sylvia Plath

How to Love Yourself

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I’ve put off writing anything for the  new blog. Partly because I wanted perfection and partly because the answer to “how do I love myself” is to love yourself.

How hard is it to just love yourself?

Hard. I know.

So how do you love yourself when you aren’t feeling good about yourself?

You love yourself for being unable to love yourself. You love yourself for feeling crappy. You love yourself for feeling whatever it is you feel.

When you can’t love yourself. You love yourself for being unable to love yourself.

 But how?

  1. Open your heart.
  2. Let yourself experience what you are feeling.
  3. Accept everything just as it is.
  4. Don’t expect you will remain in the a state of love and bliss and happy fun time all the time. When you have a moment to reflect or realize that you are feeling bad, you open yourself again to acceptance and loving yourself where you are.
— Adapted slightly from “Learning to Love Yourself” By Gay Hendricks

It will change your outlook.

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