Asrai Devin

Kiss me, and you will see how important I am.” ― Sylvia Plath

July 15, 2013
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the meaning of sex

I have been reading Gabrielle Bernstein‘s books Spirit Junkie and May Cause Miracles. Staying connected to love is harder than it seems. I started wondering how I could apply inner guidance, choosing love over fear and being present to sex. Biologically, … Continue reading

February 22, 2013
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Self-doubt

I don’t read reviews and I often skip emails from readers. I know I should reply to them, but I can’t. Sometimes I get masochistic and read through some. And I then I get depressed for days or hours. I … Continue reading

February 18, 2013
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Parental Bullying

Those who believe in punishing children (or punishing anyone) might want to go somewhere else. If you want some information on why punishment doesn’t work you can go here: Ahaparenting.com       Alright who is left now? You might … Continue reading

February 11, 2013
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Sex and public consumption

My sister in law’s son was selling magazines. She subscribed to Time ’cause it was a “really good deal” and now she’s giving me the magazine after she reads it. I was flipping through and in a side bar, because there isn’t enough … Continue reading

February 4, 2013
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Sci-Fi is dead because of women?

Skimming over my Facebook page, I ran across this rant about Science Fiction and women. In case the status has disappeared or you don’t want to read it, I’ll paraphrase. Women who like sci-fi are few and far between. Women … Continue reading

January 15, 2013
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Project Tuesday: Jan 15 edition

Project Tuesday, where you get a little update on me. Feel free to share with me what you are working on. Crocheting has been fairly well dropped. I was getting frustrated with the Sashay yarn. But that is not the main reason. … Continue reading

January 14, 2013
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Blaming everyone

Most of us have experienced tragedy.   Sometimes it’s shared tragedy, school shootings, terrorist attacks, war, torture, and everything else.   Sometimes it’s personal, losing a loved one, receiving a negative diagnosis of the body,or of the mind.   News … Continue reading

January 1, 2013
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2012 in review

January I wrote about dining room tables, which is my second most viewed post of all time, on the wordpress.com blog. Our furnace went out, which coincided with the coldest days of the year. It was close to -50 C … Continue reading

December 17, 2012
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Enough, I am enough, you are enough. We can stop.

I’ve gotten myself into this frenzy of saving people from “wrong” choices. It started with Yahoo Answers and it escalated to several Facebook groups. People post something like “My 18 month old is biting. Spanking and time outs aren’t working.” … Continue reading

December 11, 2012
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Fucking SAD again

Okay, so every  year I experience seasonal affective disorder. I know this. I try to plan with exercise and getting outside and things. I failed this year. My dear sweet little boy, I call him Sunshine Boy, hates going outside … Continue reading

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